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Thursday, September 1, 2011

Help to be Good



Sept 4th, '11 Sunday homily-Fr.Francis Chirackal CMI, MSW
Ez 33:7-9; Rom 13:8-10; Mt 18:15-20
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In the history of salvation we see frequent conflict between Israelites and prophets. There were conflict between individuals, groups and communities starting from Adam and Eve. Quarrel needs only two people to start with. That is why even a couple, madly in love in the early days of marriage, often end up fighting like cats and dogs in later stages. Conflicts exist in villages, parishes, small Christian communities, larger societies and nations. There are conflicts among even priests and among bishops. Nobody is exempt. In many cases these quarrels lead to a lot of bad blood, greater tensions and a further escalation of the conflict. Stories of Egypt and Libya are still live in our minds. Many people generally just blame the other and shift the total responsibility for the conflict on to the other.


The solutions proposed in today’s readings require much more maturity. As we heard in the first Reading, prophet Ezekiel was commissioned by God to give brotherly correction to the whole nation. God told him that, “You, son of man, I have appointed watchman for the house of Israel; when you hear me say anything, you shall warn them for me”. St.Paul in his letter to Romans reminds us of our Christian obligation to love our neighbor. The gospel tells us that true Christian charity obliges a Christian not only to help his or her neighbors in their temporal and spiritual needs by alms and by prayer but also to correct an erring brother or sister with love in a proper way if their sins are public. Giving correction in love is what parents do, what teachers do to students, what friends do to friends.


As many people think one of the temptations in priesthood is to want to be popular and that can sometimes prevent some priests from speaking certain truths on behalf of God. Ezekiel was warned by God not to shy away from preaching the truth, If I tell the wicked man that he shall surely die, and you do not speak out to dissuade the wicked man from his way, he (the wicked man) shall die for his guilt, but I will hold you responsible for his death. In families some of the parents and couples may encounter similar situations. They want to give proper guidance to their children or family members, but find themselves mouth closed as it may hurt the feelings of the other.


Like in the human history, so in our times individual and community conflicts are inevitable. In fact they are part of life. Furthermore, conflicts can even be a source of great enrichment if we approach them constructively. For conflicts arise because we think differently, have different likes and dislikes, values and morals; come from different family background, cultural background, educational and vocational setups and belong to different age groups. Yet the good news is that these very differences can help us discover wonderful, new and enriching perspectives in the way we view problems and deal with them.


There is a perversion that may occur when we are afraid to carry out brotherly correction, gossip. Cardinal Schönborn, in his book My Jesus: Encountering Christ in the Gospel writes, “We talk with everyone we can about the faults of the other person, just not with that person himself. This “backbiting” is almost a national pastime for us. The person affected is often the last to find out that his faults are being discussed…Gossiping is unmerciful…”


When I look at my past I find number of occasions in which my parents, siblings, family friends, relatives, teachers, friends, elders, priests and my superiors helped me to understand my errors and correct my way of thinking, behavior pattern and functioning. Helping an erring brother or sister to return to the proper path will also help the correcting person to be more cautious and lead a good life.


As Christians, in many ways we are the keepers of our neighbors. We have an obligation not only to do what is right but also to help others do what is right. Some people may do mistakes due to ignorance, weakness or certain external or internal influence. They are good people and are ready to make a U turn if they get proper guidance on time. In the words of Edmund Burke, “All that is needed for evil to prosper is for good people to remain silent”. Let us try to be more loving, more charitable and more helpful to others by living our Christian identity and fulfilling our Christian obligations keeping God our midst and listening to Him. God bless you.

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