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Friday, September 9, 2011

Unlimited Forgiveness



Sept. 11th, 11 Sunday homily– Fr.Francis Chirackal CMI, MSW
Sir 27:30-28:9; Rom 14:7-9; Mt 18:21-35
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There are plenty of people who feel a lot of hurt and pain as they remember incidents in their past. We may not find a single person who never felt hurt in his/her life. We may also find many who did forgive everything and living in happiness. But many feel that they cannot forgive those incidents and especially the persons involved, whom they blame for their suffering. It may be a verbal or physical assault by the spouse, parents, siblings or children. It may be an injury, insult or injustice caused by a co-worker, boss, friend or stranger. They feel a desire to retaliate and inflict at least as much harm as they themselves had received, ‘an eye for an eye and tooth for a tooth’.


First reading from Sirach says that only a sinful man can be angry with a neighbor and retaliate because of some offence the neighbor has committed. God will hold his sins against him because, instead of forgiving his neighbor, he took vengeance on him. St.Paul in the Second reading reminds us that as baptized Christians, we belong to Christ and an eternal life is waiting for us. In the gospel Jesus had been teaching the disciples how necessary it was to be ever ready to forgive their fellowmen who injured them. Jesus tells Peter that there is no limit to the forgiveness we must be ready to give our neighbor.


According to Psychological studies, many human health problems have its root in feeling of hurt, inability to forgive and desire for vengeance. We read in the news papers innumerable incidents of destruction, pain, loss, cruelty and sufferings being caused due to un-forgiveness. Today we remember 9/11, the day on which thousands of people died and hurt physically while millions of people hurt mentally.


Today, we received a very clear message from our Lord through the readings of the Holy Bible. We were told to forgive others of all their trespasses against us. Here the seventy times seven doesn’t mean 490, but never-ending forgiveness, day after day, week after week, years after years, this being done without counting. Many times gospel values may not go with mathematical principles.


When we do not forgive someone, it is because we are passing judgment on that person. Jesus commanded us not to judge others so that we will not be judged. So how can we perfectly forgive someone without judging? Bible gives answer. God forgives those who trespass against Him without counting, without looking back, without ever mentioning the trespass again, as if it never happened. That is holy forgiveness. Jesus tells us to imitate it.


Jesus wants us to be holy. According to the scriptures, "Being unable to forgive is the greatest obstacle to holiness!" We need to imprint these life saving words on our minds and hearts with special emphasis. We need to remember them always. Our salvation depends on them! As John says, “No one is without sin! If anyone believes that he is without sin, he is deceiving himself and the truth is not in him.” [1 Jn. 1:8] We have thousands of great dead and living examples of forgiveness namely, John Paul II, Gladys Staines and many. If Jesus could forgive those who murdered Him [Lk. 23:33-4], He Who was sinless, He Who was pure of heart, He Who was God incarnated, why is it so difficult for others to forgive so the world can be a better place to live in? Only we as individuals can answer that question by looking deep into our hearts.


Most of us have been victims at one time or another in our lives. We may have been victims of mental abuse such as rudeness. We may have been victims of ongoing psychological abuse. We may have been victims of physical abuse, discipline that goes beyond the necessity of discipline.


God wants to heal all the souls that have been victimized! God knows how these souls are hurting. God wants these souls to forgive so that their psychological, mental and many of the physical suffering may come to an end. God wants to remove the scars that inflict the victims.


God will forgive the soul that forgives others. God will welcome the return of such a child into the Body of Christ to continue its sanctification. The Holy Spirit will once more dwell within the body of the repentant individual. God will bless the person with numerous graces, this being God's way of rejoicing in this great moment. God bless you.

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